Thursday, March 1, 2007

Beach Trip

This past Sunday, Susie and I made an impromptu decision to take Jack to the beach. It was only his second time there and really his first real trip as the last one was in November when it was too cold to really get beachy.
Jack loved it. For the first 30 minutes he just walked around us in a circle, smiling with a kitchen spoon in his hand. I love this kid so much I think I'm going to explode sometimes!

The best part about living in Florida, sorry to those of you that have moved away, is the fact that you can go to the beach in the middle of winter. While the water was cold it wasn't too cold as I was able to dive in as were all the British tourists who are the only thing that makes me feel comfortable in my glaring, whiteness. Here are some pics from our beach outing:




Friday, February 23, 2007

Survey--I've never done one of these...nor will I ever again!

Middle Name: Erik

Birth month: December

Hometown: Miami, FL

School attended as a child: Windermere Elementary

Sports played as a high schooler: Copious amounts of soccer

College: University of South Florida and Rollins College

How I met my wife: Ropes course team building exercise on my first day as a counselor on the same staff

First Kiss: ? Whitervall--some girl when I was in 3rd grade wanted to "practice" while playing hide and go seek...whenever my sister was "it" the other girl and I would hide and kiss until my sister found us.

Knew I was in love: when my wife made me feel like 4 years old again

Engaged: Valentine's Day, 2005 at Leu Gardens. I proposed on both knees in front of the lake. I said yes and then we walked around and listened to bad jazz...technically this was my second proposal as the first came on the same day (five minutes after) we found out Jack was on his way...I was scared out of my mind but already knew without a doubt Susie was The One!

Wedding Date: March 26, 2005, in Miami at Ant Krazee's

Honeymoon: weekend in the Keys... layed in a hammock and ate shrimp

Major in College: Psychology

Minors: Anthropology

Degree: MA in Mental Health Counseling, BA in Psychology

Current Work Situation: Mental Health Counselor at an elementary school for at-risk kids and manage a new business while providing tutoring to yet more kids...and dad of a one year old

Siblings: Sunny (my sister who many thought was my twin while growing up)

Kids: JACK aka The Boog

Current Pet Situation: Zip aka Pits (Jack calls her that)

Something you might not know about me: most of these things you don't know for a good reason but one might be that I have seizures on very rare occasions or as Susie refers to them (fits)

My Hobbies: Cooking, gardening, biking (on hiatus), guitar, music

Favorite Color: Green

Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate

Fav. Place to eat: Any French restaurant with Beef Wellington

Favorite Store: Ross

Favorite month of the year: December!

Dream Vacation: Second honeymoon in Paris and Italy with Susie

Greatest Fear: Needles/Dentists

Fav. TV Show(s): 30 Rock

Fav. Music: Radiohead/Tom Waits/Ben Harper/Beethoven/David Bowie

Fav. Actor: Jack Nicholson/Paul Newman

Fav. Movie: Life is Beautiful

Fav. Holiday: Christmas

Favorite attribute in people: Compassion

My Best Attribute: Elbows

Thursday, February 22, 2007

FCAT Blues

The lucky Floridian children that I work with (I'm a mental health counselor) are now full on entrenched in FCAT woes. Monday begins the dreaded test upon which all of their ability and merit is based.

For those adults out there that remember taking SAT's or GRE's or other standardized tests...remember the anxiety that went with taking those tests. Now, imagine being 8 or 9 years old and taking a test of even greater significance. Further, imagine knowing that your score on this one test, which you cannot study for, dictates (solely) whether you pass or fail. Next, throw in the major hardships that come with poverty (as most of the kids I serve come from hard working, lower income families).

Many of these kids have parents who have worked their way from extreme poverty and practically nothing to struggling with head barely above water. Many make slightly too much for Medicare/Medicaid benefits but don't have jobs which provide insurance and therefore have chronic health issues that more affluent families would have easily been treated and freed from long ago. Mental health issues run rampant in lower income families to say the least due to the prolonged stress, often passed like from generation to generation.

In the end, most of the kids that take the FCAT do fine. Year after year they prove themselves and move to the next grade. But, for those that can't handle the stress of the test or the other intangible variables that are so pervasive in their lives (like their father dying in Iraq), or those that simply don't have the IQ to catapult them over these obstacles...those kids are retained...sometimes more than once (I work with two kids in the 3rd grade on their 3rd time around--can you say, "drop out". They don't fail...the system fails!

Should there be an FCAT, sure...as a test to measure along with report card grades and to assist in targeting the types of services needed to help a child do better. Not punish them, often for things they CANNOT control...which is more often than not precisely what happens.

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

Jack updates

This past weekend I finally cut the boy's hair. Now he looks like a man (pictures to follow soon if our computer can get on-line long enough to upload the pics). He also has been eating huge amounts of food and sucking down gallons of milk...I think he's hitting a growth spurt. The boy has truly become a real person with an incredible sense of humor.

Things he does to make us laugh include:

1) Dancing as if in the 80's video for "I Like Big Butts" until we laugh

2) "Fisheye"--this thing where he looks at you out of the corner of one eye while pretending to be turning away...he usually cracks himself up too

3) The other day he brought his mother a present from his diaper...only he wasn't wearing a diaper and what should have gone in the diaper ended up on the floor and then in his hand...he knew it was garbage and mommy needed to help!

4) He practices to take on the great hot dog eating champion of the world, Kobayashi (don't ask why I know this), by stuffing 50 Cheerios in his mouth at once...it's scary and funny at the same time.

5) Spinning...he loves to make himself dizzy and stumble around after a good spin.

The boy is doing great...we are enjoying him more than ever lately. I try to savor the babydom as I know it will be gone sooner than we know it. He already seems like a little boy and no longer a baby.

The Boog is killing me with cuteness his cuteness!

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Valentine's Day

I LOVE MY WIFE...as if you all didn't already know that!

Here's why:

1) She's funny
2) She's almost as funny as me
3) She's smart
4) She's much smarter than me
5) She's the kindest person I've ever known...except when it comes to solicitors
6) She's an incredible mother
7) She teaches me to be a better person without even knowing it
8) She's not married to someone else (anymore)
9) She's beautiful (a side perk of this whole love thing)
10) She thinks I'm the greatest...even though she is!
Rants, drivel and a few interesting tidbits